The Dresden House

Transitional Housing

Program Manual

 

MISSION STATEMENT

 

The Dresden House Transitional Housing program seeks to help men find balance in their lives by creating a safe environment, providing practical resources, and limiting negative distractions that keep them from creating a foundation that will encourage living a productive and balanced life.

 

The recommended stay is twelve months, depending on the individuals needs.

 

Requirements for the program include finding employment within two weeks of entering the house; assisting with house duties and chores, participation in a support recovery group, weekly studies, and private bible based discipleship, and weekly church services.

 

The Dresden House believes that the most important steps men take in making some positive changes in their lives is to acknowledge their inability to overcome destructive habits on their own, to believe that Jesus Christ died for them so that they can have a personal relationship with Him, to receive forgiveness for all their mistakes, and to know that the Holy Spirit of God will help them be who they were created to be.

 

We help men understand that taking full responsibility for past choices will help in making better decisions in the future. We help men see the value of being open and truthful about their struggles, pains and weaknesses, as well as their gifts and talents.

 

Change from a lifetime of bad habits and negative selfish thinking is often slow. The program staff and volunteers work one day at a time to be a beacon of hope for men who are ready for change. We believe that when someone puts their faith in Jesus Christ that their hearts are changed forever and that the process of renewing their mind begins.

 

The program seeks to minister to the whole person and teaches men that making God real in every situation is not a religious act but a natural outflow of a living relationship with their creator Jesus Christ.

 

When you come to live with us at one of our transitional housing units, you become a member of Recovery Prison Ministries' family.  We will assist you in every struggle, every day.

 

I.          PROGRAM DYNAMICS

The Dresden House housing program is tailored for those who recognize they have a life-controlling problem and need assistance in a structured environment that is firmly rooted in Christian principles.

 

The Dresden House program is a twelve-month program focusing on spiritual growth, work ethics, educational achievements and Celebrate Recovery, a structured, Christ centered, twelve-step program.

 

During the program, The Dresden House family members will be assisted in their recovery through four program dynamics:

 

1. Spiritual Dynamic

“Come to Me, all who are heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you, and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you shall find rest for your souls.” Matthew 11:28-29

 

Our desire is that all who come to The Dresden House transitional house will develop a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ, and develop a life-long wholeness and esteem for our Savior.  People lacking the fear of God find their life in a cycle of serving selfish desires, making wrong choices and not having peace of mind and heart. We introduce the concepts of Christian living and personal responsibility. The Christian life is not abstract theology unconnected with life, but has practical implications that will affect how we choose to behave each day. It is not enough to merely know the Gospel, we must let it transform our lives and let God impact every aspect of our lives.

 

A personal relationship with the Lord can only be properly nurtured and fully developed within and among a local body of believers. No one is called to be a lone Christian. Church life (living corporately on a daily basis) is essential to growth.

 

Family Members are required to attend Sunday church services, weekly group sessions and bible study. While a member of Recovery Prison Ministries’ family, all Family Members will be exposed to sound Biblical lifestyle principles and healthy relationships. All Family Members are encouraged to practice daily morning devotions.

 

2. Work Dynamic

“And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Jesus Christ.” Colossians 3:23-24

 

The primary purpose of the work program is to teach our Family Members skills, direction, self worth, interpersonal relations and conflict resolution. There are many opportunities for Family Members to learn skills that will promote a better quality of life. Establishing and maintaining a consistent work ethic is a vital part of the recovery process.

 

3. Educational Dynamic

“My people are destroyed from the lack of knowledge.” Hosea 4:6

 

The need to educate Family Members in recovery is important. As Christians we must be prepared when adversity comes our way. Through Bible education Family Members will come to the knowledge of understanding. Family Members are required to attend various Bible Classes and programs.

 

4. Drug and Alcohol Therapy Group/Process group

“Whatsoever things are true honest, just, pure, lovely, of good report, if there be any virtue, if there be any praise, think on these things.” Philippians 4:8

 

Weekly attendance in the drug and alcohol recovery group is mandatory. Group interaction, solid concepts, and personal testimonies are part of the group dynamics. A trained facilitator will lead most of the groups.

 

5. Chemical Dependency Counseling

“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me.” Matthew 11:29

 

The Dresden House has referrals for licensed drug and alcohol counseling available for those who are in need or have legal requirements mandated by courts or probation.

 

II.        PROCEDURE FOR ENTRY

 

“Come to Me all that are heavy burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28

 

Ø   The Dresden House’s  transitional housing program is a voluntary program.  The Dresden House will only accept applicants that we feel are committed to this 12-month life changing program. 

 

Ø   Applicants must be physically able and mentally stable to participate in all work and living situations.

 

Ø   In the event of bed unavailability, applicants should contact our office every week or two to determine program availability.

 

Ø   No person will be admitted to the program that is currently taking psychotropic medications.

 

Ø   Applications from sexual and violent offenders will not be accepted.

 

Admission Process:

 

1)            Contact the ministry office to obtain a copy of the program manual and application for entry into one of our houses .

 

2)            Read the entire manual and complete the entrance application.

 

3)            Mail, fax, or email your entire application to the Housing Director at:

a.             Fax:  660-826-4410

b.            Email:  rpm_housing_director@yahoo.com

c.      Mail:  PO Box 1105, Sedalia, MO 65302-1105

4)            Call the Housing Director’s office at 660-221-0782 the next day after 9:00 am for a phone interview.

 

Shared Living Expenses:

 

To enable The Dresden House to provide this program to people seeking help, all family members are required to share in living expenses.  All Family Members are given 2 weeks to find employment.  The Dresden House housing program will assist you in finding work but it is your responsibility to continue to apply for jobs until work is found. A job search log must be filled out daily until work is found. We have work resource help and relationships with several merchants in the area. Our family members have always found work. Once you find employment or the beginning of the third week, whichever comes first, each Family Member is required to pay their share of the living expenses, $125.00 per week.  The shared living expenses helps cover the costs of accommodations, food, laundry, phone, television, utilities, access to approved social services, auto expenses, personal storage of goods (limited) and local transportation to church, treatment centers and social services (for further clarification see: Transportation).   If you are receiving disability or other financial resources that make you ineligible for employment, you will be required to pay shared living expenses of $125 per week from the first week you are a member of the The Dresden House family.  There may be a waiver of the first two weeks living expenses if you are eligible for ATR funds.

 

All Family Members will fully corporate with The Dresden House staff to obtain state funding, which may include setting appointments with organizations that provide assessments and counseling.

 

Family Members are responsible for the purchase of toiletries, personal items, and clothing.

 

ID Fees

 

If applicants arrive at one of The Dresden House  without proper picture identification needed for employment, including a birth certificate, state issued identification (drivers licenses, prison identification) and a Social Security card, The Dresden House will assist our Family Member in obtaining these documents.  All Family Members will repay The Dresden House for all necessary expenses incurred in obtaining their documents.  

 

Transportation

 

Most of the transportation expenses are included in the daily living expenses. Transportation can be provided to and from work, probation and parole, doctors, dentists, counseling services, and social services appointments in the local area.  Court hearings and other approved locations and activities are provided at a cost of 0.52 cents per mile. It is your responsibility to notify the House Driver at least 24 hours in advance of any changes in your work schedule or appointment times. There is a transportation board where you will be able to list your transportation needs. Please verbally confirm your transportation needs with your House Manager or Housing Director.

 

III.       PROCEDURES FOR DISMISSAL AND CHECKOUT

 

“These six things the Lord hates, indeed, seven are an abomination to Him: a proud look (the spirit that makes one overestimate himself and underestimate others), a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that manufactures wicked thoughts and plans, feet that are swift in running to evil, a false witness who breathes out lies (even under oath), and he that sows discord among the brethren.”

Proverbs 6:16-19

 

Dismissals / Re-Entry

 

1)                  Court appointed Family Members may be dismissed from or choose to leave the program. The sentencing court and probation and parole will be notified.

 

2)                  Dismissed Family Members will not be reconsidered for re-admittance to the program for a period of sixty days. The person re-applying must show a genuine willingness to change and to comply with the program regulations.

 

3)                  Any returning Family Member will start the program over from the beginning.

 

4)                  All Family Members leaving The Dresden House housing program either through graduation, dismissal, or a voluntary decision must go through a final interview and complete all checkout procedures with approved The Dresden House staff.

 

5)                  All outstanding obligations such as, but not limited to, shared living expenses, loans, property damage, document fees, and other expenses must be paid at the time of departure. 

 

6)                  Rooms are to be left in good, clean condition. Only personal items are to be removed. All ministry supplied equipment, furniture, décor, bedding, etc. are not to be removed.

 

7)                  The Dresden House is not responsible for any personal property left by the Family Member after their departure from The Dresden House home.  Property that is left behind by a Family Member becomes property of The Dresden House if not picked-up within 7 days after leaving the program, unless special arrangements are made, in writing, by the Housing Director.

 

8)                  If you are dismissed for drug and/or alcohol related issues, you will not be eligible for reentry until you have completed a 21-day rehabilitation program, approved by The Dresden House staff.  

 

9)                  If you are asked to leave the program for any reason and you are on probation and parole you may be given 24-hours to find other accommodations.

 

10)              If you are asked to leave the program for violence or stealing, we will press charges.

 

11)              If you are asked to leave the program for any reason, any shared living expenses you may have paid in advance will not be returned to you.

 

Relapses

 

The Dresden House is a zero tolerance program!!!

 

IV.       POLICIES AND PROCEDURES

 

1)                  The Dresden House provides all bed linens. Beds require a fitted sheet, flat sheet, and a pillow with a pillowcase. Blankets are to be made up under the comforter.

 

2)                  Space and storage in the bedrooms are limited. Only essential items for personal needs and comfort are allowed.

 

3)                  The Dresden House tries to maintain an environment with a theme of uniformity in furniture and décor. Therefore, the Family Member may not bring any decoration or furniture without the approval of The Dresden House staff. This includes, but is not limited to, fans, lamps, glass picture frames, etc.

 

4)                  Clothes (including coats) are to be hung up or neatly folded in the drawers or on the shelves.

 

5)                  All soiled laundry is to be kept in the appropriate containers.

 

6)                  Any item(s) that are not appropriately put away is at risk of being confiscated or thrown away.

 

7)                  All drinks must have lids or caps.

 

8)                  No food or drinks will be placed on any room furniture without a coaster.

 

9)                  All snacks must be kept in plastic drawers.

 

10)              Family Members are expected to turn off all lights and fans when leaving the rooms.

 

11)              The Dresden House reserves the right to conduct a search, or have a search carried out, of any room or of any Family Member’s personal belongings if a search is deemed necessary.

 

House Living Policies

 

1)                  All The Dresden House Family Members are to respect all staff and volunteers, at all times.

 

2)                  All Family Members will be considerate and respectful of other Family Members, at all times.

 

3)                  Use the Chain of Command to handle issues.  Family Members will talk to their respective House Manager, who will then report to the Housing Director if deemed appropriate, who will then report the issue to the Program Director if necessary. 

 

4)                  Family Members may not enter another Family Member’s room without permission from the House Manager and both Family Members assigned to that room.

 

5)                  Family Members are not allowed to enter The Dresden House  homes with soiled shoes and/or boots.  Family Members are required to enter their home through the doors at all times. Boots and shoes worn at work MUST be taken off at the door before entering the home. Non-compliance will result in disciplinary action.

 

6)            Upon returning from trips, visits, and outings all packages may be inspected.

 

7)            Family Members may not leave the boundaries of their homes after returning from work without signing out.

 

8)            All Family Members must sign-in and out when leaving The Dresden House homes, with the exception of work.

 

9)            No leaving the houses after lights-out without written permission by the House Manager or Director.

 

10)        Personal televisions and computers are prohibited.  All Family Members wishing to have a cell phone must obtain written permission from the Housing Director.

 

11)        Upon entry to The Dresden House homes, all baggage, luggage, bags, containers etc. are to be surrendered to Recovery Prison Ministries’ staff for inspection.

 

12)        The Dresden House reserves the right to inspect all items coming into our homes or facilities at any time.

 

13)              No personal pets are allowed.

 

14)              TESTING: Family Members will submit themselves for random drug and alcohol tests at the discretion of staff. The Dresden House

 

15)              VISITORS are not allowed access to the The Dresden House homes or facility without written permission from the House Manager or Housing Director.

 

16)              SMOKING is permitted in the designated outside smoking areas only.  No smoking in the houses.

 

17)              CHORES will be assigned by the House Manager.  There are approximately 8 men per house, so you will be required to cook an evening meal once a week. If you refuse to do your pre-assigned task you will be asked to leave the program.

     

            Daily Chores:

·         Bedrooms will be kept neat and orderly at all times.

·         Beds must be made before leaving for work and kept neat.

·         Clothes must be hung up or neatly folded and placed in drawers.

·         You must clean up after yourself in the kitchen and in the bathroom.

·         If you smoke, you must dispose of your butts properly.

·         If you chew tobacco, you may not spit in a canister.

 

18)              TELEPHONE: All Family Members have limited phone privileges. There is no long distance available without a prepaid phone card. All messages will be written on the phone message pad.

 

19)              INSPECTIONS: The House Manager may inspect your bedroom or vehicle any time if there is a suspicion of alcohol or drug use of any kind. If you are suspected; you will be required to take a saliva and/or U/A/ test. This will be at a cost of ($20:00) to you. If you refuse, you will be asked to leave the program. This is a Zero Tolerance Program!

 

20)              FOOD: 3 meals a day are provided. Breakfast and lunch food is provided; it is up to you to cook it. Dinner will be cooked each evening by a Family Member as part of his weekly chore duties.  All Family Members are to be present for Dinner every day, unless prior written permission is granted from the House Manager.

 

21)              You may buy any food that you want. You can store certain foods in your room provided they are in a proper container. We are not responsible for your personal food supplies. We have an open kitchen policy.  

 

22)              TELEVISION: Television is a privilege. Respect others in the house. See House Manager regarding specific television policies.

 

23)              LAUNDRY:

·         Laundry machines are provided for each Family Members’ use.

·         Bed sheets must be washed weekly.

·         Comforters must be washed every other week.

·         Laundry is provided for Family Member’s use only.

·         If there is a problem with the laundry equipment, please notify House Manager.

·         Family Members are required to do their own laundry.

·         Family Members are responsible to remove all personal items from clothing.

·         The Dresden House is not responsible for lost or stolen personal property left in clothes.

·         The Dresden House is not responsible for any lost or damaged clothing.

·         Family Members must notify the House Manager if the laundry supplies are low.

 

CONFLICT MANAGEMENT

 

Between Family Members

 

If a conflict or a disagreement occurs between Family Members, Family Members should try and work the matter out on their own. If a resolution is not found, the Family Member may call a meeting with the House Manager. The House Manager will speak to each Family Member separately or as a group, if all parties agree.   Remember that house meetings are a good place to discuss general house issues. Please do not bring up personal issues that you have with another Family Member at the house meetings.

 

Between Family Members and Staff

 

If a conflict between a Family Member and a staff member occurs, the Family Member must fill out a grievance form located in each house. If a form is not available you may request one from the House Manager or Director. Once the form is completed, you must turn it in to either the House Manager or Director.  A meeting will be set-up within 24 hours to resolve the issues. 

 

Church Policies

 

1)                  All The Dresden House Family Members are to attend Sunday church services.

 

2)                  All Family Members are to present themselves ready for church at 9:10 am.

 

3)                  Services begin with bible study at 9:30 am. Church service ends about 12:30 pm There will be a short break between bible study and church service.  Smoking and bathroom breaks can be taken at that time.

 

4)                  All The Dresden House Family Members are to dress appropriately.

 

5)                  All The Dresden House Family Members are to be at their seat five minutes before start of services.

 

6)                  All The Dresden House Family Members are to remain in their seats during services.

 

7)                  All bathroom and smoking breaks are to take place prior to the beginning of the services. Exceptions for emergencies only.

 

8)                  All The Dresden House Family Members are to maintain proper behavior during services. (i.e.: no personal conversations, no sleeping, no slouching, no feet on chairs, etc.).

 

9)                  All The Dresden House Family Members are to keep their focus on the service. Making eye contact or other types of attention getting gestures to other Family Members is prohibited.

 

Conduct

 

            “Let every person be in subjection to the governing authorities. For there

            is no authority except from God, and those, which exist, are established by

            God. Therefore he who resists authority has opposed the ordinance of God;

            and they who have opposed will receive condemnation upon themselves.”

            Romans 13:1-2

 

1)            Use of illegal tobacco products, alcohol consumption, drug use, or sexual activity of any nature is not allowed.

 

2)            Fighting, personal altercations, or any other type of physical contact is strictly prohibited. Anyone who engages in such actions will be given disciplinary action up to and including dismissal from The Dresden House houses.

 

Devotions / Quiet Times

 

“How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Thy Word.” Psalm 119:9 “Thy Word have I treasured in my heart, that I may not sin against Thee.” Psalm 119:11 “Thy Word is a lamp to my feet, and a light unto my path.” Psalm 119:105 “The unfolding of Thy words gives light; it gives understanding to the simple.” Psalm 119:130

 

The Dresden House believes that Jesus is the answer. The greatest exercise of hope for all of us is to read and apply God’s Word. Our source of strength is found in the pages of the Bible. By developing practical study habits of the Word, we gain nourishment from God. The Water of the Holy Spirit quenches our thirst for restoration. Through prayer we seek God’s restoration.

 

Financial

 

1)                  Family Members are required to be financially responsible.

 

2)                  Family Members are required to work with a Recovery Prison Ministries’ staff member to create a budget that includes, but is not limited to, financial goals, financial obligations, (e.g.: legal, child support, debt collections, etc.).

 

3)                  Family Members will be required to open a Family Member savings account through Recovery Prison Ministries while a member of our Family.  Deposits are required to be made each pay period.  Each Family Member will receive receipts for deposits and withdrawals, and will have full accountability as to the status of their account.

 

4)                  For the first six months, no checking accounts, credit cards, or ATM cards are permitted unless it is employer sponsored.

 

5)                  The Dresden House Family Members may retain funds for personal use as long as all current obligations are being met.

 

6)                  The Dresden House Family Members will take care of all personal financial obligations using money orders.

 

7)                  The Dresden House Family Members are to address all money orders to the Payee in the presence of Recovery Prison Ministries’ staff.

 

8)                  Weekly cash allowance will be determined by Family Member’s budget. Any amount requested above that amount is to be approved by The Dresden House staff.

 

 

Mail

 

1)                  The Dresden House Family Members are responsible for all envelopes and postage for personal mail. The Dresden House staff can help Family Members mail packages through the post office.

 

2)                  All incoming and outgoing mail goes through the Recovery Prison Ministries’ staff. 

 

3)                  All incoming mail is distributed by The Dresden House staff.

 

4)                  All outgoing mail must be sealed in the presence of The Dresden House staff.

 

5)                  The Dresden House reserves the right to open and inspect all mail and packages in the presence of the Family Member.

 

6)                  Any incoming mail that contains contraband will be confiscated and destroyed. Family Member will be asked to leave the house immediately.

 

7)                  Any out going mail that contains contraband will not be mailed and the Family Member will be asked to leave the house immediately.

 

All incoming mail should be addressed as shown:

                        If you are in the Dresden House:

                        Family Member’s Name

                        C/O The Dresden House

                        22406 Hitaffer Rd,

                        Lamont, MO  65337

 

Medical / Dental Care

 

1)                  Payment for medical/dental care is the responsibility of the Family Member.  Remember, you may be asked to make payment at the time of service. 

 

2)                  The Dresden House Family Members requiring medical or dental appointments must fill out an appointment request form and submit it to House Manager who will schedule the appointment. The Dresden House House Manager has a list of medical and dental facilities in the surrounding area who offer significant discounts to all The Dresden House Family Members.

 

3)                  All appointments will be scheduled on the Family Member’s day off unless it is an emergency.

 

4)                  The Dresden House Family Members are responsible for informing your work place manager or supervisor of medical/dental appointment information.

 

5)                  All on the job injuries must be reported immediately to your employer and to your House Manager.  

 

Medicine

 

1)                  The Dresden House does not allow any type of behavior modification drugs.

 

2)                  The Dresden House Family Members are required to present ALL medications for inspection upon arrival and all medication prescribed to them during any doctor/hospital visit.

 

3)                  No products containing alcohol will be allowed (i.e. mouthwash, aftershave, etc.)

 

Music and Movie Policy

 

1)                  In order to establish an environment that will lead to successful recovery for all Family Members, we encourage all Family Members to watch and listen to music and movies of Godly principles. We believe that we should apply Godly principles to all aspects of our life, including what we listen to and what we watch.

 

2)                  Family Members must use headphones when listening to music.

 

Phone Calls

 

1)                  Phone use is a privilege and should be treated as such.

 

2)                  Cell phones are only permitted with written permission of Recovery Prison Ministries Housing Director.

 

3)                  Family Members may not use The Dresden House staff or work phones without permission. Any exception to this will be for work purposes only.

 

4)                  All Family Members must have a pre paid phone card for all long distance calls.

 

5)                  The Dresden House staff has the right to monitor any phone call. Phones conversations that become argumentative, disrespectful, manipulative or complaining will be terminated.

 

6)                  Abuse of phone privileges will result in disciplinary action.

 

7)                  Phone calls will not be made or accepted after curfew.

 

Personal Hygiene

 

1)                  All Family Members must practice and maintain good hygiene at all times (shower, brush teeth, shave, deodorize, and clean up after themselves - daily).

 

2)                  Jewelry, except for rings, watches and necklaces (that are approved by administration) will not be allowed.

 

3)                  While a The Dresden House Family Member, body piercing, tattooing, and other body marking is not allowed.

 

Work Policies

 

“Let him who steals steal no longer; but rather let him labor, performing with his own hands what is good, in order that he may have something to share with him who has need.” Ephesians 4:28

 

1)                  The Dresden House Family Members will be transported to their job site and are expected to be ready for work at least 15 minutes prior to transport.

 

2)                  Family Members are to follow the directions of leaders in the areas they work.

 

3)                  Family Members are to establish and practice good work ethics. Leaders in the work place will aid the Family Members in this area.

 

4)                  Conflicts with others at work are to be handled by the work manager/supervisor. Family Members are to report all conflicts immediately. (See Conflict Management section.)

 

5)                  All Family Members are responsible to inform the work place of any absences/ time off/illnesses.

 

6)                  All Family Members who become sick and need to leave the job must contact the Housing Manager or Director.

 

7)                  Any Family Member who misses three consecutive days of work must see a doctor.

 

IV        PASSES/VISITATION/LEAVE POLICIES

 

·         In order to preserve and maintain a healthy and productive environment for all Family Members, all visits/passes are evaluated and will be approved or disapproved according to the Family Members attitude, behavior, maturity, progress in the program and the destination will be considered in all requests.

·         Passes/visits may be granted for on or off property visits. Initial visits are restricted to immediate family members.

·         After the initial settling in period, friends may be pre-approved for visits if their influence on the Family Member should prove to be of good benefit. The Dresden House will not tolerate inappropriate behavior or language by Family Members or visitors.  No illegal substances are allowed on The Dresden House property.

·         If The Dresden House Family Member’s visitor does not agree with the goals and the ministry program, it is better if they not visit.  The Dresden House staff reserves the right to talk with any visitors prior to Family Members’ departure on a pass or visit. Any violation in the visitation policy may result in the denial of future passes and visits.

 

General

 

1)                  All requests for a pass, visit, or leave must be submitted to the House Manager or Director in writing using the Leave Request form.  All requests must be signed by the Family Member and the House Manager or Director.

 

2)                  All Family Members must sign in and out and notify House Manager upon returning.

 

3)                  Family Members must surrender all packages and bags to staff for inspection prior to returning to their room.

 

4)                  A Family Member returning from passes, visits, and leave may be required to submit to a UA test.

 

Passes

 

A pass is given to Family Members to leave The Dresden House houses for a period of time. Passes are a privilege and not a right. All passes, visits, and leaves are at the discretion of The Dresden House staff.  Failure to conduct oneself according to the policy set forth by The Dresden House standards may cause immediate termination of these privileges.

 

Overnight Visits

 

An overnight visit is considered for a visit with immediate family only. Recovery The Dresden House will not agree to an overnight visit if the Family Member does not display the maturity to apply what they have learned in the program as a part of their lifestyle. These visits are a privilege and not a right.

 

Leave of Absence

 

A leave of absence is considered a leave lasting longer than overnight but less than six days. Considerations will be given for travel time on an individual basis for each Family Member.

 

First 30 Days

 

During their first 30 days, Family Members are not allowed to receive any visitors or to leave the property with anyone other than The Dresden House staff and volunteers, except for business or legal purposes. This is to ensure that Family Members can focus on themselves without outside influences that may hinder their recovery.

 

V.        SCHEDULE OF ACTIVITIES DAILY

 

Sunday:          9:30am ....................... Church

 

Monday:         6:00pm ....................... Celebrate Recovery 12-Step

 

Tuesday:        7:00pm ....................... In House Bible Study

 

Wednesday:   7:00pm .......................Church

 

Thursday:      6:00pm .......................In-House Bible Study

 

Friday:           6:00pm .......................Family Movie Night

 

Saturday:       7:00pm ....................... Men’s Prayer Group

 

 

VI.       DISCIPLINE POLICIES

 

“All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful, yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.” Hebrews 12:11 “Before I was afflicted I went astray, but now I keep Thy Word.” Psalms 119:67

 

The Dresden House approach to discipline is one of training with the purpose of restoration. Family Members may not receive the exact consequence as another Family Member; each Family Member is treated as an individual and is disciplined according to what is in their best interest. We are not, however, merely disciplining a behavior. Our primary goal is to train hearts and to build character and to renew our thinking with the help of the Holy Spirits power at work in us and through us.

 

The purpose of discipline is:

 

·         To correct improper attitudes and behaviors.

 

·         To help teach the consequences for bad behavior.

 

·         To instill respect for authority, others, and self.

 

·         To nurture and develop desirable character qualities while eliminating bad attitudes and harmful actions.

 

·         To enable the Family Member to develop a Christ like response to discipline.

 

·         To allow Family Members to share in the holiness of God and to produce a harvest of peace, joy, and happiness.

 

Disciplinary measures may include, but are not limited to the following:

 

1)            Loss of day passes, visits and/or leave privileges.

 

2)            Loss of phone privileges.

 

3)            Scripture writing.

 

4)            Anger management or assigned counseling.

 

5)            Time added to length of program.

 

6)            Program re-starts.

 

7)            Program expulsion.

 


THE DRESDEN HOUSE TRANSITIONAL HOUSING AGREEMENT:

 

All policies are subject to change according to the circumstances and attitude of the Family Member.  This will be at the discretion of The Dresden House staff.  

 

I have read The Dresden House Housing Manual and the agreement contained in it. I understand the terms and conditions of The Dresden House program.  I understand that I am not a renter or entering into any type of lease agreement.  If I am accepted into one of The Dresden House homes, I am a member of the The Dresden House family.  I agree to follow the terms and conditions of The Dresden House program contained in this handbook. I understand that I am a member of The Dresden House family.  My weekly fee is a share of the living expenses and not a tenancy agreement. I have completed the entrance questionnaire to the best of my ability. I have received a copy of The Dresden House Housing Manual for my records.

 

Family Member Agrees:

                                          

 

Print Name:                                                                 

Signature                                                                     

Date:                                                                           

 

 

The Dresden House Housing Director:

 

Print Name:                                                                 

Signature                                                                     

Title:                                                                           

Date:                                                                           

 

 

Witness:

 

Print Name:                                                                 

Signature                                                                     

Date:                                                                           

 

 

THE DRESDEN HOUSE TRANSITIONAL HOUSING

PO Box 1105

Sedalia, MO  65302-1105

(660) 221-0782